Author: KingdomLink

From Matthew 5:17 to 5:47, Jesus speaks about the true nature of the Law  and how to live rightly by it. Over and over He says, “You have heard it said…but I say to you.” Taken as a whole, we see that He was addressing a legalistic reading of God’s Law. He had seen how the teachers of the Law had misapplied God’s Word and so misdirected His people. So He took time to correct the core misunderstandings. Jesus now makes a declaration that puts the final nail in legalism’s coffin, “Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” 

Christ’s command to be perfect is a great antithesis to self-justification. God’s standard leaves no room for pride, only humility. For who among us is perfect? Apart from the mentally ill, all of us realize that we are not perfect. We might be OK. We might be good. We might even be very good in our own estimation. But no reasonable person claims to be perfect. Only God is perfect. 

John Nolland wrote, “One must go all the way in obeying the will of God; one cannot be content with some circumscribed version of obeying God’s will.” This is the crux of the matter; What use is the half-hearted disciple? Rather like a fair-weather friend, they are only there to capture select blessings of the relationship instead of the whole. The legalist seeks not to fulfill the Law, but to justify themselves independent of character or thought. Focusing only on behavior, they take what was meant to be about God and His purpose, and make it all about themselves. Effectively, they whittle down God’s intention and make it into an unhelpful burden instead of a declaration of His glory.

That was never God’s plan for His disciples. Thousands of years earlier, the Father had said to Abraham, “I am God Almighty; walk before me and be blameless.” Moses had reiterated that same command to the new Israelite nation, “You must be blameless before the Lord your God.” Such statements mandate regular and careful consideration of both one’s ways and one’s thinking. The true disciple makes space in their lives to re-evaluate themselves in light of God’s perfection.

The thing is, every time we do that we find we are falling short in some capacity or another. Our brokenness is exposed. But rather than use the revelation of another gap in our lives as a stepping-stone to self-criticism and despair, the disciple leans into the love of God and repents. Repentance becomes a springboard, launching us into a deeper relationship with the Father. As a result, we find His love more than sufficient to heal us, closing that gap and making more like the risen Christ. 

We find that God’s command to be perfect was not to crush us, but to make us stronger. For in humility before Him, we find certain hope that one day He will make us perfect. We will be free from sin forever – literally perfect, and able to perfectly enjoy God in His perfection without fear of being destroyed by His flawless holiness. Amen. 

We are not perfect. But we can be consistent. And we can consistently work at becoming perfect as Jesus is perfect.

Anonymous

APPLICATION: Worship 

Praise God for His glorious grace to us. Praise God for His patience endurance to us. Praise God for His commitment to us. Praise God for His plans and purposes for us. Praise God for His holy perfection.

No parent expects much from the children of others. But they do have  expectations of  their own kids. God does too. Jesus said, “If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?”

There comes a day in most every parent’s life when they purpose to bless their child, and yet find that before they can do so, the child acts out in a most unacceptable manner. The parent’s plan must be re-accessed. They realize the blessing must be withheld – at least for a time. But holding the blessing back is grievous. Not to the child, who was altogether unaware of the blessing to be had. Rather, it hurts the parent. They know the day was supposed to be one of celebration, and instead has turned to a day of punishment. Their imminent joy at the child’s happiness has been stolen from them, and that by the very one they meant to bless. 

If that is so for us, how much more so for God? For it is His nature to bless. How He longs to bless His children! How it must grieve Him when He has to withhold blessing on account of His son or daughter’s selfishness!  

God is the giver of life. The sustainer of life. The One who purposes that we might live an abundant life. God is the one who provides for this life, and died on the cross that we might live forever. We have a most gracious and generous Father! So much so that even while we were running about getting on with our lives and largely if not totally ignorant of Him and His mission, Jesus was building and preparing a place for us in His Father’s house, “In my Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you.”

In consideration then, it must not be that we should do only as the ungodly do. For even the greedy and selfish love those who love them. Even secularists show hospitality to other secularists. God’s children surely must have a higher standard than that, do they not? Surely the child of God will not act as the world acts. Or as a Muslim acts, or as a Hindu or Bhuddist acts. Surely a Christian (literally ‘little Christ’) would do as Jesus would do. And Jesus has already told us, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”

Jesus has no illusion that doing so is easy. He speaks using the language of reward, because He knows that we need some kind of promise that doing so will be ‘worth it’. In a way that is really sad, because all through our existence God has been showing us that He is worth it. But if we ever needed one more reason, here it is. Act like Jesus, and know that it will be worth it. There is a reward for being like Him in character, and in outlook, and in deed. For if He died for us while we were still sinners, what more will He do for us when we truly are and act as His children?

Behold, I am coming soon! My reward is with me, and I will give to everyone according to what he has done.

Jesus (Revelation 22:12)

APPLICATION: Thankfulness 

Thank the Lord for the blessings you enjoy today, His bountiful blessings you will enjoy yet in life, and the unimaginable blessings you will enjoy in His presence forever. 

“Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be  sons of your  Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?”

Every citizen of a country gets to enjoy the blessings of that country. They have the right to protection by the state against foreign aggressors. They have the privilege of participating in that country’s institutions and economy. They can go about their lives as every other citizen can – quite independently of whether they like their government or not. They may even be subversive to a some degree, but because they are citizens their country is obligated to protect and care for them. The whole world innately recognizes the injustice of leaders who do not protect and care for their citizens.

God owns all the world, and as King of the World, He blesses all who bear His image. All who He created He cares for. All who He created can enjoy the life He gave them – even quite apart from any repentance on their part. They live a lifetime as all of us live a lifetime. To see morning after evening. To see rain as well as sun. God blesses them and us so that all might know that He is God and not a man. For surely no mere man (or woman) would be so gracious in blessing their enemies! 

Yet God goes much further. Every day His enemies have breath is another gift to them. Another opportunity for them to turn in repentance, and though they are enemies, in repentance they receive complete amnesty! “Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.” All it takes for a sinner to become a child of God Most High is for the sinner to call on His Name. As Joel prophesied, “And everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” That is the bar – the entry to salvation, the price of eternal freedom. Just to call on the Name of the Lord. 

Regular people are never so quick to forgive. Never so quick to bless. Neither are earthly kings – they are usually very slow to bless, and hardly ever forgive. But God’s character is such that He does forgive. He does bless. In fact, He is constantly seeking for the sinner to come to that point of repentance so that He can bless much more. He gives the sinner breath and time and speaks to them in all manner of ways, going so far as to write down His promises in His Word. He goes further still, making provision in the past for their present sin, and preparing storehouses of blessing for future days. This is how He treats His enemies! Why, even hanging from the cross, Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

Loving our enemies as God does is hardly a natural inclination. It is difficult to love our friends consistently, let alone care about someone who cares not for you – and much harder still to care for (let alone love) someone who is working against you. Yet God loved us while we were still sinners. So what Jesus says, He does not suggest. He commands, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven.”

It is a command borne entirely out of God’s love for us. It is a command to be blessed as God is blessed. It is a command for our benefit as well as the benefit of the one we love instead of hate.

Amen.

Jesus directs us to love others in exactly the same way he loves us.

Henry & Richard Blackaby

APPLICATION: Worship 

Worship God for so loving us that He purposes we would reflect His innate character to all – even those people who are still working against Him.

Does God ever hate? Does He ever hate a person? These are legitimate  questions.  Philosophers ask them. Theologians ask them. Soldiers ask them. Everyone who’s ever felt crushed and abandoned by Him asks them. 

All who read the Bible find the answer.

Psalm 11:5 says, “The Lord examines the righteous, but the wicked and those who love violence his soul hates.”  Psalm 5:5-6 declares, “The arrogant cannot stand in your presence; you hate all who do wrong. You destroy those who tell lies; bloodthirsty and deceitful men the Lord abhors.” Proverbs informs us, “There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers.”  

Reading that, one must conclude that yes, God does hate. One might even be tempted to conclude that God hates some people. Yet what God is saying is not that He created some people so that He might despise them, but that what those people do sets them up as His enemies. Our sin is part of us, and unless and until we repent we are inseparable from their sin, so the unrepentant go the way of their sin. That is, they ultimately go to the same place as their sin was always determined to go – to the same place all God’s enemies go – to complete and utter destruction. 

This then shows us the great mercy of the cross of Christ. For at that junction point, we find forgiveness for our sins – not because God overlooks our sin when we turn to the cross, but because at that point He separates those who call on Him from their sin; The sin He leaves on the cross, the person He made in His image He raises from the dead at the last day. As the Word affirms; “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the sinful nature, God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering. And so he condemned sin in sinful man, in order that the righteous requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit.”

It is true that God hates the wicked and those who love violence, and even hates all who do wrong. Yet God does not rush to do harm to them. God’s hatred is nothing like our hatred. We hate unto violence and destruction. God hates unto redemption and restoration. He hates sin and yet died to restore the person. “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” 

Unfortunately we cannot see the difference between a person and their sin. So if we permit ourselves to hate a sinner, we will hate the person that God still loves – the person Christ died for, the person for whom God did literally all He can to redeem from their sin. God knows that, so He knows that the only way for us to manifest His character when we are faced with a person who is sinful is to love them anyway. Thus we hear Jesus telling us, “I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” Amen.

Jesus did not simply define neighbor as friend, our group or someone who treats us nicely. We are to love the man who does something mean and nasty to us, the man who deliberately sabotages us.

Francis A. Schaeffer

APPLICATION: Intentionality 

Today, deliberately find what you can do to bring the blessing of God to those you do not like.

Jesus knew the Pharisees and teachers of the law had not been teaching  accurately from God’s Word, so as He teaches from the Sermon Mount, He expounds on a better and fuller understanding. It comes across as dramatically different from what the people had been historically told, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.”

Before Israel entered the promised land, Moses had successfully communicated God’s Word, “Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.” Hearing this command, the worldly and ungodly among those who hold grudges immediately consider who is exempt from the command. They want to know who they can seek revenge against, and who they might be allowed to bear a grudge against. Instead of a wide understanding of the command to love our neighbors (for who is our neighbor but all people made in His image?), the fallen human mind looks to the reverse – license to hate, and a minimal expression of love.

Matthew Henry put it well, “by neighbour they understood those only of their own country, nation, and religion; and those only that they were pleased to look upon as their friends: yet this was not the worst; from this command, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, they were willing to infer what God never designed; Thou shalt hate thine enemy; and they looked upon whom they pleased as their enemies, thus making void the great command of God by their traditions, though there were express laws to the contrary… See how willing corrupt passions are to fetch countenance from the word of God, and to take occasion by the commandment to justify themselves.”

Matthew Henry got the point. God had never indicated He wanted His people to hate any fellow human being. Instead, He had said, “If you come across your enemy’s ox or donkey wandering off, be sure to take it back to him. If you see the donkey of someone who hates you fallen down under its load, do not leave it there; be sure you help him with it.” Indeed, both Edomite and Egyptian were sworn enemies of Israel, but God had said, “Do not abhor an Edomite, for he is your brother. Do not abhor an Egyptian, because you lived as an alien in his country.” With such explicit commands, how is it that we could think it appropriate to hate anyone?

God made each of us in His image, and it is given to us to act in His image. To act according to His Name. We must love one another (Jn 13:34-35, Rom 13:8, 1Pet 1:22), and we must grasp that “one another” includes all those made in His image. That isn’t just so that we might merely act like He whose image we bear. It is that we might be like Him. For that is the greater blessing, and Christ would have all of His followers so blessed.  

Amen.

The benefactor loves him whom he has benefited more than he who has been benefited loves the benefactor. The workman loves his own work more than the work loves the workman. All men feel greater love for what they have acquired with labor; as those who have earned their money love it more than those who have inherited it.

Aristotle

APPLICATION: Intentionality 

Our reaction to our enemies is indicative of our love for God and our desire to become more like Him. What is in your soul? Is it hate toward sinners, or God’s deep love for them to escape their sin?

Jesus lived and ministered during the Roman occupation of Israel. Occupied  nations are  typically consumed with hatred toward their captors, and the conquering nation looks with suspicion on their new subjects. It is difficult to find justice in such cases. But while in that environment, Jesus said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, Do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.”

It is impossible to ‘turn the other cheek’ if you believe that you are entirely on your own and life is only the few short years between birth and the grave. If that were true Jesus would be doing us all a great injustice in giving us this instruction. But if you understand that God is your Father, and that in the life to come you will live forever, then what is the stuff you have? Your Father – who makes all things by simply speaking – can more than replace anything you lose through His providential circumstance. And what is your life and body? Do they not belong to God more than you, and if so, will not God – who is your Father – wreak vengeance on those who harm you? 

NT Wright wrote, “When the Messiah appears, the one who is your life, then you too will appear with him in glory.” It is not that “‘one day you will go to be with him’. No; you already possess life in him. This new life which the Christian possesses secretly, invisible to the world, will burst forth into full bodily reality and visibility.” “There will be a new mode of physicality, which stands in relation to our present body as our present body does to a ghost. It will be as much more real, more firmed up, more bodily, than our present body – as our present body is more substantial, more touchable, than a disembodied spirit.” Wright says, “We sometimes speak of someone who’s been very ill as being ‘a shadow of their former self’. …A Christian in the present life is a mere shadow of his or her future self, the self they will be when the body which God has waiting in his heavenly storeroom is brought out, already made to measure, and put on over the present one.”  

Wright is correct. God is purposing to give the mortal body of His disciples immortality, and to replace the corruptible nature of our physical selves with incorruptibility. He has promised everlasting life – abundant life, no less – to those who follow Him. Therefore the disciple of God does not need to fear loss of any kind. Not loss of tunic or cloak or wealth. Not loss of time or respect or dignity. Not loss of health or even loss of our body in death. Rather, the one who inflicts such losses on God’s children needs to fear, and fear greatly. For what shall become of them when our Father demands an accounting? 

“Then I saw a great white throne and him who was seated on it. Earth and sky fled from his presence, and there was no place for them. And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened. Another book was opened, which is the book of life. The dead were judged according to what they had done as recorded in the books. The sea gave up the dead that were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead that were in them, and each person was judged according to what he had done. Then death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. The lake of fire is the second death. If anyone’s name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire.” So it will be. 

Therefore, let us not resist the evil person, but as Solomon suggested, “If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.” Amen. 

Never look for right in the other man, but never cease to be right yourself. We are always looking for justice; the teaching of the Sermon on the Mount is—Never look for justice, but never cease to give it.

Oswald Chambers

APPLICATION: Intentionality 

Purpose today to give to those who demand from you, and to unflinchingly hold to God’s character under persecution.

Having taught about divorce, Jesus moved to the subject of oaths. That makes sense, because a divorce is essentially the revocation of an oath. Jesus’ viewpoint is that we shouldn’t take unnecessary vows, simply letting our yes mean yes, and our no meaning no with all honesty. In that context Jesus moved to the subject of justice, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, Do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.” 

The Jewish people had in fact heard, “Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth,” for Moses received this instruction from the Lord, “If men who are fighting hit a pregnant woman and she gives birth prematurely but there is no serious injury, the offender must be fined whatever the woman’s husband demands and the court allows. But if there is serious injury, you are to take life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, bruise for bruise.” 

Of course, that passage actually speaks of injury to the unborn. It is God telling us to value the unborn child as an actual child – not a lump of cells but a real human being, deserving of the rights of protection and certainly at least as much care as a fully-grown adult. But the Lord had also said to Moses, “If anyone injures his neighbor, whatever he has done must be done to him: fracture for fracture, eye for eye, tooth for tooth. As he has injured the other, so he is to be injured.” People were to treat each other with respect, and share in the sufferings they deliberately inflicted on another. That rule even extended to those who had planned harm, “If a malicious witness takes the stand to accuse a man of a crime, […] The judges must make a thorough investigation, and if the witness proves to be a liar, giving false testimony against his brother, then do to him as he intended to do to his brother. You must purge the evil from among you. […] Show no pity: life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot.” 

Yet in every one of these cases, it is not up to the offended party to inflict punishment. It was the corporate whole of society – represented by the judges and legal system – who were to inflict discerned punishment on the accused – and that only after due process. It was not meant to be something that each wronged individual immediately sought to do to those they felt wronged by, because God was also very clear that, “It is mine to avenge; I will repay.” To take up your own cause for justice while you have ‘skin in the game’ (that is, a vested interest in seeing a particular outcome) is at the very least a conflict of interest. At worst, it is to seek to displace the judge of all creation. 

God’s people should know better than to do either. Though we may not see God’s justice happen immediately, we can still trust Him for the right outcome. We must never allow a personal thirst for justice to trump God’s prescription for holy justice. 

For these reasons Paul reminded the disciples in Rome of both Deuteronomy 32 and Proverbs 25, “Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”

Amen.

Though the mills of God grind slowly, Yet they grind exceeding small; Though with patience He stands waiting, With exactness grinds He all.

Longfellow

APPLICATION: Worship 

Thank God that He does not let unrepentant perpetrators go. Thank God that He yet has mercy upon those who do repentant.  

Moses had told Israel, “If you make a vow to the Lord your God, do not be  slow to pay it,  for the Lord your God will certainly demand it of you and you will be guilty of sin. But if you refrain from making a vow, you will not be guilty. Whatever your lips utter you must be sure to do, because you made your vow freely to the Lord your God with your own mouth.”  This law meant that you could not make a vow and then in regret keep putting it off without consequence. Nor could you simply ‘forget’. God always does what He says He will do, and He does it in good time. His people must therefore act likewise. 

The outcome of this should have been that God’s people mean what they say and say what they mean. If one lacked the capability to fulfill a promise, one would simply not promise it. Of course, that severely limited one’s influence. It is easy to see how the temptation was to promise more than you could deliver, and to back up grandiose commitments with a vow – a vow that was nothing short of a pseudo-lie – having only a possibility of proving true. As with all lies, such talk springs forth from the father of lies. 

Teaching on the sermon mount, Jesus calls it for what it is; “Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not break your oath, but keep the oaths you have made to the Lord.’ But I tell you, Do not swear at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne; or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. Simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” 

In our day and age, lies, exaggerations and misspeak are rampant. From the highest office to the lowest, truth is deemed to be subjective. What that means in practice is that the line of demarcation between truth and falsehood is so blurred one can only find it by careful research. Our culture expects the seeker of truth to ensure someone is telling the truth by doing what the legal system calls “due diligence” – meaning you need to double-check what you were told as fact by accessing more objective sources of information of your own accord. Where in the past the onus was on all to tell the truth, today all the onus for truth is on the one who wants truth.

That our society as a whole accepts this is a great shame. Such a lackadaisical approach to honesty does not even honour people, let alone God. But so it is. As Paul wrote to Timothy, “…in the last days people will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God.”

In this environment the true disciple of God stands out like a beacon on a foggy night. What we say, we mean, and we mean what we say. We do not take the place of God and promise things outside our control, nor do we invoke authority we do not have to justify our words. Yes means yes, and no means no. By acting this way we shame the evil one, honor our Father in heaven, and draw attention to the rule of the righteous judge of all, God Most High.

The strength of truth lies in the unity of its parts.

Charles Spurgeon

APPLICATION: Worship 

Lord, we thank You that Your Words are true. You do what you say you will do, when you say you’ll do it. Lord, let us honor you today by doing likewise. Amen.

God is holy, and because God is holy, He never kills unrighteously. God does  not even kill a relationship with an unfaithful sinner, and we thank God for that every time we return to Him in repentance! But if God is not willing to turn away a repentant sinner – even if it is the umpteenth time they’ve committed the same sin – than how could it be that we His children are willing to turn away from the one we promised to love and cherish all our days? 

Yet such is the human heart, and for this reason Moses received instruction from God that permitted divorce – but only in the case of indecency, “If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, or if he dies, then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to marry her again after she has been defiled. That would be detestable in the eyes of the Lord. Do not bring sin upon the land the Lord your God is giving you as an inheritance.”

The indecency Moses talks about was “ʿerwat dābār (“something indecent about her”; lit., “the nakedness of a thing”). [Suggesting] the improper uncovering of the private parts.” That did not necessarily mean adultery. In fact it likely did not because the penalty in ancient Israel for adultery was stoning to death. What it did mean is that it was possible for a husband to be so disgusted with his wife that he subjects her to a very public shaming and banishes her from his household and his relatives (“sends her from his house”). 

One would only do something like that in a very extreme and unusual circumstance – perhaps if she became a serial exhibitionist or a twisted threat to the children. Unfortunately by Jesus’ day the teachers of the law had applied it to such trivialities as improper preparation of food and other minor inconveniences. So Jesus – teaching in His Sermon on the Mount – clarifies God’s intention, “It has been said, ‘Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.” 

What is clear- firstly from Moses’ Law and secondly from the lips of Christ – is that divorce in God’s eyes is something to be avoided at almost any cost. Like the cutting off of a limb, it reduces the whole of the persons involved, inflicts incalculable suffering and effectively cripples the people involved from full participation in everyday life. Effectively, it is a lifetime sentence to trial and hardship. 

God is good – even to sinners. Those who reflect His character must therefore be exceedingly cautious about doing anything that might not be good. Especially if it might impose a lifetime of trial and hardship , and even more so with regard to sentencing another to it. That doesn’t mean it can never be done – there are always going to be unique and bizarre situations that call for the harshest of sentences. But these are rare exceptions. They are never to become the norm. One should think about divorce with all the seriousness that we give to amputation.

So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.

Jesus (Matthew 7:12)

APPLICATION: Intentionality 

How are you reflecting the goodness of God to those around you?